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          "Which are you?"

A young woman went to her grandmother and told her about her life and

how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to

make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling.

It seemed as one problem was solved a new one arose.

Her grandmother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water.

In the first, she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs and the last

she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil without saying a


In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots

out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in

a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to

her granddaughter, she asked, "Tell me what do you see?"

"Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.

She brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted

that they got soft.She then asked her to take an egg and break it.

After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg.

Finally, she asked her to sip the coffee. The granddaughter smiled,

as she tasted its rich aroma.

The granddaughter then asked. "What's the point,grandmother?"

Her grandmother explained that each of these objects had faced the

same adversity--boiling water--but each reacted differently.

The carrot went in strong, hard and unrelenting. However after being

subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg

had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior.

But, after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened.

The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the

boiling water they had changed the water.

"Which are you?" she asked her granddaughter.

"When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond?

Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?"

Think of this: Which am I?

Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity,

do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat?

Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship

or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff?

Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with

a stiff spirit and a hardened heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the

very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases

the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their

worst, you get better and change the situation around you.

When the hours are the darkest and trials are their greatest

do you elevate to another level?

~Author Unknown

My kindest thanks to Timm Wheeler for drawing our attention to 

this particular story as part of his Lessons on Life collection of

Inspiring and Motivational or Just Good Stories....


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